"You betta fight!"

For the past week I've had the same 3 women talk to me about my relationship. Now, 2 out of 3 of these women know what's going on. I'm not sure about that 3rd one, but you never know. But they all keep telling me the same thing. "Fight for your man!" Evidently, what I'm doing now is not enough and it's not going to get me far...as per my lady friends. At first I just listened to them and kind of brushed it off, but the more and more I hear from them and the more I think about it, it makes me think, "Am I really doing what's right to keep my man around?" Part of me thinks, yes, I'm doing what I need to do. But I do have a part of me that thinks I need to fight harder to keep my man...well, not to "keep" him, I guess I mean to make the situation better? Ehh, I know what I mean I just can't put it into words. As long as I get it, that's all that matters. I guess the one thing I keep asking myself is, what do I do? How am I supposed to "fight" for my man? It sounds like a good idea when they say it, but what do they actually mean? Up until now I've been to myself about a lot of this, but I'm starting to think I need to talk to someone about this. I've been getting some crazy feedback from friends since I stopped telling them what's been going on and I think it's funny. I disagree with a lot of what one of my friends has been telling me. It's hard to take advice from someone who's on their 3rd marriage (no offense to her, just sayin'). But I guess if you think about it, wouldn't she know more about relationships? Or at least what to look for in a bad relationship? Or just things to avoid? Being that I'm extra tired tonight, I think I'm going to take some time to ponder over all of this. I wonder what I should do, if anything at all....

P.S. I GOT INTO GRAD SCHOOL!!!! WOOHOOO!!!! Starting August 2012 I will be apart of the Class of 2014 Master of Social Work Program!!!!! Yay!!! Go me!!!!